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February 16, 2016


Valentine celebration was different.…., I am not yet old and grey, teeth never comot for my mouth and I didn’t get any “shokolate”, this must be the work of my enemies. Please someone should write Hubby a memo that Sykik, a-la Mama Bomboy is still waiting for “shokolate” oh, and he shouldn’t worry, shokolate doesn’t enter breast milk.

By the way, when did Naija babes start accepting roses as gift? I don’t mean plastic rose oh, that one is for secondary school love. I mean all those roses that Naija weather doesn’t allow remain fresh and to scent well-well ……. I hope babes are not on a “forming levels”.

I was “face booking” *looking for gist* on my timeline when one love poem caught my attention……my heart froze….it’s a lie……what am I reading…..Jesus wept……my friend is writing love poem to her husband.

Habatically, come and see America wonder oh….this is the same husband that pounded her like yam with punches because she went and disgraced him at owambe where he went with his mistress…….the “two both” of them even wore uniform to the party sef…..this my friend chop beating that day no be small…….Is it that she has forgotten so soon……..did the beating reset her brain to factory settings ni? …. see wetin valentine is causing…these are the “I-must-to-celebrate-valentyme” …… who is she fooling? ........…… anyways, make I drop comment before I am tagged bad belle. 

We women can like to pretend ehn, is too much, kilode…..some people will be envying this couple now not knowing all this facebook love is a charade.

How was your Valentine celebration, my fellow "celebrators" (kai, Sykik has started blowing grammar), did Le Bae or Boo do the needful?

January 28, 2016


Excuse my manners, happy New Year from Sykik, Hubby and Bomboy. Make una no vex, I have been going “upandon” during the holidays, that’s why I couldn’t blog.

God has started a new work in your life and he will definitely complete it.

Uhn………., I see the spirit of God taking over, Sister Sykik in the building…………..

My prayer for you this year 2016, is that God will take you to heights beyond human imagination, give you peace on all sides, bless the fruits of your hands and your body, cause you to burst out in songs of joy…….

I decree over your life that this year, the works of your hand will take you far and wide, you will fulfil destiny, and God will cause the heavens to open upon you. Lack will be far from your home and your resources will not run dry in Jesus name. Every day of this year will be testimony filled in Jesus name. Amen.

Oya, let someone shout Hallelujah.

Its mind bugging that in this cold winter of “–double digits degrees” some boys are still sagging. Like seriously, who are you sagging for? In this ice block, a-la snow, who has time to be looking at “Tommy Hilfiger boxers”?

Anyways, let me face my work and leave another woman’s son alone #UCHEFACEYOURWORK.

Bomboy is now a “bigz boy” oh. We will soon be doing 1 year baiday. God is faithful.

Special shout out to Duru Adolphus Jnr, he has been keeping tabs on me like kilode. No wonder he keeps falling in and out of love. He’s definitely a passionate “somebody”,

Hollop! Hollop!, I want to give a shoutout to my personal person, my one and only e-sister. You know who you are!!! God bless you real good. We connect on all levels.

This 2016, I will give you plenty gist for sure.

Abeg, is “aproko” a sin?

December 22, 2015


My Neighbor and his wife

My neighbour's maid acts like the boss madam in the house. She has a free hand in the running of the house as the main “oga madam” is never around. The real “oga madam” stays in #obodo oyinbo. While I was on maternity leave, I noticed that this maid opens the maid’s room door to someone late in the night.

Now, to the crux of the matter, my neighbour and his wife had a very bad argument. It was so bad that “oga madam” drove her car out of the house in anger and ran into a stationery vehicle on the street. According to Hubby, “Thank God no one was in the car if not she would have killed someone that day”.

Now to the crux of the matter, "oga madam" believes there’s something between the maid and Oga because she saw some telltale signs.

As a good neighbor I haff faced my work?  ......... #Uchefaceyourworkoh (who remembers the Etisalat audio clip that made headline in 2014). 

November 15, 2015


I was opportune to listen to a discourse on fertility and I was shocked to hear that in 2015 some peeps are still of the opinion that ARTs are not biblical.

It would be nice to read an opinion that actually differs from mine.

I will lay my opinion as I understand it and from the stand point of someone who had to TTC for 9years.

Ezekiel 37:4
Again He said to me, "Prophesy over these bones and say to them, 'O dry bones, hear the word of the LORD.' "Thus says the Lord GOD to these bones, 'Behold, I will cause breath to enter you that you may come to life. 'I will put sinews on you, make flesh grow back on you, cover you with skin and put breath in you that you may come alive; and you will know that I am the LORD.”

Genesis 2:7
And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.

Medical science has been able to fathom that it takes the coming together of a male sperm and a female egg to form a foetus and this has brought about most of the different forms of ARTs  to assist couples who are TTC. However, does this mean that science has discovered how to give life…the answer is NO.

The breath of life belongs to the Omnipotent, Omniscient and only living God. He's the only one who can breath life into the cells formed in the Petri dish during an IVF procedure, he's the only one who can command life into eggs when an IUI procedure is performed. This is the only reason why IVFs fail. If he withholds that breath, the procedure becomes unsuccessful no matter the number of viable eggs transferred into the woman. I came into this realisation during my several procedures. 

It's God that gives life not the OB/GYN. It's not about how good the clinic or how well the procedure went. I have learnt that our trials are all to his glory….remember the story of the blind man

John 9:1-3
As He passed by, He saw a man blind from birth. And His disciples asked Him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he would be born blind?" Jesus answered, "It was neither that this man sinned, nor his parents; but it was so that the works of God might be displayed in him.…

Our situation and challenges is to show forth his awesomeness. 

If we can take aspirin for pain, go for surgery to correct a defect, then I believe infertility is also just a form of anomaly that needs medical treatment. The irony of it all is that there are more cases of unexplained infertility than explained….ARTs are often the last medical techniques when all other natural measures have been taken.

If you have never known hunger, then you can't understand and describe hunger, likewise if you haven't TTCed you can only imagine what it is to long for a child. It's painful when TTC couple are held bound by society’s belief and can't seek help just because……..

All we hear in churches are testimonies of couples who waited 25,20,15,10years……and suddenly are blessed with triplets, twins and singleton. Nobody says what procedure they had to undertake to have the babies…..all because the children will be stigmatised….if they laugh too much, it will be because they are test tube babies, if they cry na wahala. 

I know a school proprietress who swears she can tell IVF babies apart……Kai……I laugh in Chinese…….for where,…….it's all in her head. 

TTC: trying to conceive
ART: assisted reproductive technology