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May 30, 2014


I am alive, everything may not be as I want it to be but I am happy
All praise to God

I can cry for tear gland works overdrive..... I cry when I am happy, sad or angry. I cry when I read, hear or watch a heart touching scene. I cry when I empathise with anyone, I cry when I lack words to express myself.....I am a confirmed cry-cry baby.

Will non-church workers make heaven?

Why do women regard the “MRS” title more than a PHD?

The rainy season is here, so I am expecting that women will soon be “bringing forth”

Why would a man and woman come together to have a child and the child automatically is given the father’s last name? Who invented this rule?

I need bum-bum increasing diet oh....I won’t mind adding a few pounds to my behind, I won’t mind shaking and rolling it for Hubby in ways that will lead us into more “praise and worship sessions”, maybe cause some minor and no life threatening accidents....yes ke,.....I also need to give Toinlicious a run for her famous watch this space, #ama-be-competing-with-you-soon

This post is the height of randomness....and I doff my cap for anyone who reads and makes sense of my disjointed thoughts..............thanks for always stopping by, I won’t trade you for chocolates...*winks*

The second half of the year begins in less than 48 hours. May your joy be full and the peace of God which surpasses all human understanding rest and abide with you now and forever.

May 15, 2014


It can be knee crumbling
It can be excruciating, it’s beyond words
It can be heart racing, it’s beyond formula 1
It can be nerve wrecking, arthritis doesn’t hold an ace to it
I am numb
I am speechless
I am in a spin
I am in pain

I am grateful for all the prayers, support and encouraging words I received after my last post. I can’t thank you enough. I can’t begin to mention names but you all know yourselves, I am here today because you prayed. All I ask is that you remember my family in your prayers; I am holding God to his words....

Isaiah 43:2-4
“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.  For I am the LORD your God, The Holy One of Israel, your Saviour; I have given Egypt as your ransom, Cush and Seba in your place. 4"Since you are precious in My sight, Since you are honored and I love you, I will give other men in your place and other peoples in exchange for your life.…”

Deut 31: 6
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."

On to other matters,

My darlings, in the midst of my own issues, only me waka go toilet *in mama Peace voice*, I walked into the bathroom of my office and met three ladies (one of them was heavily pregnant) in the middle of a conversation. I went into one of the cubicles to mind my business and couldn’t help but listen to their conversation.

Voice 1: I can’t trust any man, not on my life

Voice 2: I have been married for 6 years and truth be told, I don’t trust myself talkless of any man.......all men are cheats, the rule in my house is “don’t be caught”. I have told my husband to play safe because if I catch STD ehn....I will show him

Voice 3 (the pregnant mama): abeg, my sisters, I trust my female friends more than my husband sef. No man should be trusted. Don’t mind that Ifeoma girl, I pity her, 10 years going no child and she’s still singing “I love my husband", he can’t cheat on me”, leave her only her know God abi.....

Voice 1: Ifeoma’s eyes will soon clear, when the man carry one small boy come house, she will know. How can a woman be all trusting in this age and time child she’s still singing "my husband loves me", "he can’t cheat on me".....she be world class mumu

Voice 2: true talk, the man most likely will have a child outside oh....this men, they can’t be trusted, 10 years and she believes her husband doesn’t have a child out of man must be a smooth player...

Voice 3: to imagine, she has a joint account with the man...kai....she be real mumu....I am tired of telling her to stop singing “My husband can’t cheat on me”, no man is faithful, she needs to open her eyes and see men for who they really are....., in this Nigeria, that men will do anything for an heir

At this point, I was teary....I didn’t want to listen anymore, I don’t know Ifeoma but I know Ifeoma’s pain. I know what courage Ifeoma has to believe in God and trust that her husband won’t cheat on her in his bid to have a child.

Why do some women believe that “men can never be faithful” is this statement true, Are some of us living in fool’s paradise? ....... I am surrounded by faithful men, I grew up knowing faithful men who have stayed faithful for decades, yes, I can say so because I know so and I know some unfaithful men too, yeah........, but, is that enough to clothe all men with the garment of unfaithfulness