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March 18, 2013

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Nothing to write….so much to say…see my life….

Sister-in-law: Sykik, come here, I want to talk to you
Sykik: Yes ma
SIL: Sykik, God will answer our prayers in Jesus name. I was with my Baba Deji for seven years before I got pregnant for him. I know what I went through, from one holy water to another, from one mountain to another. What are you and your husband doing about this thing? I hope you have both gone to the hospital…shebi you know this our husbands don’t even want to imagine that anything is wrong with them…
Sykik (fidgeting on her toes): Yes ma
SIL: ehn…ehn…sometimes you need to leave all this big name hospitals you are going to , they collect plenty money and nothing to show for it, look for a small by-the-corner-cheap one…… they are also very good oh. 
Sykik: Yes ma…
SIL: Also, get closer to your mother-in-law….you should take leave from your office, all this work, work, travel today, travel tomorrow is not good. Take some weeks off and go and cry to your mother-in-law…tell her “mummy, I am here”….. “What are you doing about this my situation?”
Sykik: Huh…..
SIL: Yes oh…you will tell her, mummy, you must do something oh….you can’t be watching me like this
Sykik: Yes ma….ehhhmmm….my Hubby is calling me…
SIL: ok. Oya, go and come back quick

Abeg, my friends what do you think….that I carried my two “tontinrin” leg back to continue the monologue …mbanu
 See wetin Aunty Flo dey take my eye see..... ehn….Aunty Flo had better start avoiding me because…I will soon place a ransom on her head. Lol…
I can’t get over myself with laughter ….please, make una helep me ask my sister-in-law, when my mother-in-law started possessing pregnancy inducing powers.
-->My darlings, you should have seen the seriousness on her face, no be small thing oh.
P.S.: I know she means well and she wants me to join my mother-in-law in her “operation Sykik must be pregnant praying mission”. 
I am not sad or crying oh…I am only sharing my day-to-day TCC experiences….. just maybe someday,  someone might read this blog , , realise someone also went through this phase and soared above the tides

27 comments:

  1. lool...na condition make crayfish bend as they often say.. I am glad u are having a good old laugh about it.. xxx

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    1. Abi oh....my time is here now, very soon I will do roaster for them all to come and take care of twins

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    2. AMEN... i like that attitude... I join my faith with you sister. I do. x

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  2. na real Huh…...good you are taking it positively

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    1. Thanks babe ....I was shocked beyond words...see me see advice

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  3. ahahahaa....i like your sense of humour and how you have taken this attitude because it takes a strong-will not to succumb to all these we-meant-well-talks.

    It is always the woman that carries more of the burden. Children comes from GOD ONLY. Many women have 'leased' children from other sources just to be called mama, but live in regret all the days of their lives. So my dear sistah, I like your courage and stance. Keep your faith in GOD FIRM.

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    1. Thanks for the encouragement. The testimonies around me of God's faithfulness is enough reason to know that I am better off on God's side. I shall surely testify. Amen

      Bear hugs mama

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  4. oh lawd, i had a good laugh there, abeg 'high five' joor for taking it so well. Well, me i like your sister in law for coming clean jare, at least she admitted that its possible that her brother could be the problem; BUT which one is go tell your mother in law ; mummy, I am here”….. “What are you doing about this my situation?”... Abeg children come from God and only God o...wetin person no go hear for this TTC wahala....Just keep trusting, this too shall pass.

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    1. Lol....I just keep picturing myself rolling on the floor , holding on to my mother-in-law's feet crying "mummy I am here" ......"what are you doing about my situation" .......mbanu...I casint fit...... For what....lol....nothing wey my ears never hear..

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  5. Lmaooo. Another hi5 jere.

    P.S: Still awaiting your email o

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    1. My dear, thanks jare.... oju won ni o ma se.....God will do his wonders

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  6. Lol, I have heard things but this one is definitely a new line...lmho @ huh!!! na real huh i tell you.

    I'm sure glad you took it humorously...But like Jemima said, I'm real glad at her understanding that the challenge might be from any party.

    Aunty Flo...U HAVE BEEN WARNED OOOO!!!!! Lol

    HUGS

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    1. I guess having gone through the experience, she's well enlightened to know it could be either party....

      Thanks for always being there..mwoah

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  7. that's the spirit... your last paragraph. You will do just fine... things can only get better because we've got God! Blessings my dear...

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    1. Yes ma'am ....God bless. How are you and your son doing?

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    2. we are doing great my sister.

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  8. Truly, you are better off on God's side than else where. God bless your heart for putting the humour spin on her talk with you, it takes only God's grace to do that. And yes I beleieve, your roaster for them to come and take care of your twins will be drawn up shortly. Your time of rejoicng is here already! We will definetely celebrate with you. (igba ope repete, mehn!)

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  9. I like your fighting Spirit Sykik

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    1. :) .... Wetin man for do? It's just a phase

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    2. I love this "It's just a phase" I so much agree with you... it will pass my dear.

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  10. If you are serving God
    It is not an 'Í must prove it matter'
    You will get pregnant, don't fuss about it

    I don't know what to say about your sister in law thingy
    Just believe that God is the One who gives babies and that He's good.

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  11. all sorts of orisirisi, it is God that answers prayers jere not man.. what does your MIL have to do with anything. Please keep praying jere and protect your territoy. God hears you.

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  12. Despite every situation, humour and beauty still remains...your sense of humour is amazing. Your time oF rejoicing is here, keep living, keep hoping & keep laughing...(Hugs)

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    1. Rejoice in all things , that's my stance

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