I don’t know what
to write because I have to guard my anonymous
status with bolts and padlocks. Someone in
my office is so damned
sure
I have a blog and is on a mission to hunt me down……. he has given himself the task
to find this blog. I hope he’s reading this post, so I can use him as my next office
aproko topic… *tongue out*
Can a man fall out
of love with his wife? I got talking to a married man last week and he
said something like “Any time I see my wife, I hate her”. I am scared to my
toes that any man would use such a strong word “hate” to describe his partner,
mother of his children and once upon a time love-of- his-life.
Dear God,
All I ask is
that the testimony of Hubby concerning me be Prov 5:19-20, let him forever
rejoice in me, the wife of his youth. Let me always be loving at all times and
let him forever be ravished with my love.
Marriage vows are for
better, for worse, till death do us part…….dear Father God, don’t let the devil
steal our joy. I refuse the devil a place in my life, home and marriage. Amen.
Why can’t ladies
appreciate someone or something without putting “but”
Female Colleague:
Sykik, nice dress you have there, its beautiful but the shoe doesn’t go
with the dress oh
Sykik: thank you, ma.
I am still learning how to “dress”
Male Colleague: Sykik, your dress is nice and you look
beautiful today
Sykik (smiling):
thank you
See the difference,
the female colleague likes it but because she doesn’t want my head to swell,
abi na bad belle, she must put “but”, however, a male colleague complements the dress and sees nothing wrong with the shoe
or decides not to “but” me about the shoe. Lol…maybe I am the one with bad
belle sef……… *rolling my eyes *
I gained 2kg after trying
for two years……. that’s an average of 1kg per year , meanwhile I have 3kg more
to gain……...see my life. Hopefully, by the year 2016, I will have added the
remaining 3kg …… weight gaining
is not a easy something oh…..lol……..I will
get there.
Amennnn to all the prayers!!! Serious bad belles, I know quite a few people that give rubbish compliments like that, I always watch myself and make sure that I don't do that..
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Thank you so much for checking on me. I am doing better and holding up strong...Huge hugs xxx
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I am glad you are doing well. Stay strong, dear. God is faithful.
DeleteYou want to gain weight?? Unbelievable o!,...ahahhaa
ReplyDeleteWomen! our wahala 2 much o jare! before nko? make your head come dey swell abi?...ahahhahahha.. bad belle 2 much abegy!
Hmm! for a man to say that about his wife, e get as e be o!
Amin ooo.
You blog in the office or talk about blogs during chatting? maybe that is how he guessed. goodluck to his detective work..e neva jam!...ahahhaha
I have been trying to gain 5kg for ever. I don tire, fat has just refused to gum this my lepa body.
DeleteI blog from the office at times. I may have to put a stop to that .
Omggg you're trying to GAIN weight? I totally hate u now :(
ReplyDeleteNa wa o, hate is such a strong word to describe a spouse, God abeg o!
Lol oh and yes, female colleagues have natural bad belle
DeleteLol .....I love you too. I should do a proper post requesting for people to donate body fat to my lepacious body.
DeleteAMEN AMEN AMEN to that prayer o. Hate is just too bleh. I hope they get through it.
ReplyDeleteAs per weight, Beautiful, you can def add me to your hate list. Gaining weight is NOT easy. I've been trying for a while & people keep telling me i'm gaining but i'm not even a UK size 10 yet and i still look skinny in my mirror jere. Maybe the mirror hates me ni sef. On top malt and horlicks every time #deepsigh
@Toin, we are in the same boat abi. I am a UK 8, everyone is on a mission to get Sykik to a size 10, I don chop and drink everything ....the fat just dey do me odeshi
Deletelol... i dont imagine Toin to be small but o well I think its good to be small.
DeleteSome of us (myself not included) have high metabolism.
I'd say instead of concentrating on gaining weight, why not opt for healthy nutritious meals that will help your skin glow and keep you healthy.
Random, but on a mission to make me gain weight when I was much younger and skinnnyy... Mum used raw eggs and malt.. Yuck. but o well.
You can experiment.
Grown up now and I will say remain healthy and happy. x
Amen to the prayers.x
I wonder what could have caused the hubby to use such a strong word on the wife too. A big fat Amen to your prayers dearie.
ReplyDeleteNa'wa o, I have been trying to loose weight like forever, and you are there wanting to gain weight?!LOL... I pray your CIA/CSI colleague is not able to hunt you down.
This weight gaining mission has been on like forever. I don tire....maybe I should start asking people to donate fat
DeleteI am honestly trying not to dislike you now. I mean, you want to gain KGs rather than lose them? That is just so not right....
ReplyDeleteAs for the hubby in your post.....hating his wife.....*I have no thoughts because I am learning not to judge anyone ever......but hate is a very, very strong word......
I love you too. Lol.....I wish there was somewhere that people can just deposit all this excess fat so that those of us that need it can go and collect from it.
DeleteThat man might one day decide to kill his wife, hate is such a stong word to use for another human being and especially now that we are talking about the mother of his children or future children...that woman better be careful for her life...kai, men sha.
ReplyDeleteShey I should come and dash you kg from my body, I need to shed some more.
My dear, I will gladly collect small fat from you jare....however, na only 3kg I can collect oh.
DeleteSo you have been trying to add weight? I wish i could dash you some of my excess hips.
ReplyDeleteAbeg, dash me hips and bum bum join biko.....I wonder how it will feel like when I ever fill into my size 8 dresses with well rounded hips.
DeleteSome want to lose while some want to gain. It is well. Your prayer is a serious one and I say a BIG AMEN to it.
ReplyDelete*cough cough* I'm coughing.
Ok bye
Colleague mi, why are you coughing...do you need some water...lol.....see life....some of us are looking for what some other persons want to shed.
DeleteOooh forgot to talk about your "nosy" colleague. LOL!! They live among us. Please give us his gist!
ReplyDeleteYou like gist ,.....lol...don't worry, his story is lined up for one of those days when I am ready to do aproko part 3
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ReplyDeleteWow, girl, why am I struggling hard not to be a teeny weeny jealous o? Please, who knows a technology for transferring fat o? Lol. Abeg, enjoy it, jare. Some people, like me, are trying hard o to lepa small, hahahahahaha.
ReplyDeleteAbout that husband's hate comment, there is such a thin line between love and hate. We do not know what could have warranted such a statement, but I have seen such switches. Our prayer, like you have powerfully shared, is that we will continually be our spouses beloved.
It is commonly believed that women are their own worst enemies, but with the few female friendships I have been privileged to see and experience, I believe that there are a different breed of women who truly do support each other and we should all pray to be different and not beef other women unnecessarily, But I see what you mean, and it happens very often.
Do stop blogging in the office before they burst your bubble o. Have a blessed week sis.
Lol....I never knew weight gaining can be such a tedious task.....no matter how much or what I eat, the weight just refuses to come .
DeleteI can't allow the bubble to be busted oh....the memo will be so long ehn....God help, I have decided to stop blogging from the office.
Thank you ma'am
Please, if you are still single, make declarations every night. Declare the type of marriage, husband and children you want. Speak into the heavenlies, and back your words with faith. No need to look at the bad examples. There are so many good examples for you to subscribe to.
ReplyDeleteFaith confession works....that's something I have learnt oh. I speak what I want, I write out my confessions sef.....the bible says life and death is in the power of the tongue .
DeleteWell said ati. xx
DeleteGbam!
DeleteThe man was not married jere. He dey deceive himself.
ReplyDeleteThere's a package for you at ou designated drop off point o. Please check your mail.
ReplyDeleteMmmwah!!!
Thanks sweetie. You rock
DeleteAmen o to all the prayers!
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Amen
DeleteOh, tell me about it, been trying to get to a UK 12 for over 7 years now,, still trying...
ReplyDeleteI guess some of us don't know how to add weight be that.
DeleteLol @ colleague let him find na lol he will find what he is looking for
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile amen yk your prayers o we need to pray against the devil's plans for us!
As for female colleagues and compliments lol just laugh! Bad belle dey pain!
Why do you want to gain weight! Mehnnnn hmmmm I want to remain the same lol. Thanks for checking on me.
bismillahi
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