September 17, 2012

EXCUSE MY MANNERS

This past week, I read about blog commenting on  SIMPLY MEE and atilola . I never gave so much thought to comments because I started blogging to let out my thoughts, emotions and perception about life anonymously.

 I had a hiatus during which I was busy scouting hospitals, trying everything medically possible to end my TTC period.However, I had to come back because I realised I needed to put my emotions into words. My hubby was scared I was loosing it; he was walking on eggshells around me when it came to matters on TTC. He didn’t want me loosing it over TTC. He thought I was being unnecessarily hard on myself. I realised I had so many things to say about this “phase of life”, things I couldn’t share with anyone. I wanted to reach out to God uninhibited…tell-it-as-it-is…….. This blog is where I release built-up anxiety and pour my heart out. I feel closer to God here, because oftentimes am writing to God...…. (Strangely, I feel God reads my blog)

However, I have to admit that the few times I had comments, I felt blessed and “cyber-hugged” (don’t know if there’s a word like that). I read a lot of blogs and truly enjoy reading them. The list is countless. However, commenting has been a challenge. It’s not like I don’t like commenting, it’s just that I don’t like reiterating what someone already said…… it feels like those moments when you go “he just said what I wanted to say”. I try to leave my tiny prints on some blogs; however, I know I should and can do more. I shall put in more effort to stop sneaking around…..hehehe…its not “a easy something” * in Jennifer’s voice*

My special thanks to everyone. I am humbled by your visit.

19 comments:

  1. thanks for passing through my blog, I am following now and hope to be seeing more of you there. Best wishes!

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  2. Thank you so much for the mention.
    I understand why you do write, hence i seldom comment, so as not to be 'interrupting'..THE LORD IS FAITHFUL. Keep TRUSTING in HIM. HIS words are genuine, they are like silver refined 7times in the furnace.
    I know what you mean by repeating yourself, hence i try to come from a different angle and re-phrase my words...just like you said, comments makes one feel 'cyber-hugged' :D

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    1. I am going to try this your method oh..thanks for always your understanding and always being there. God bless

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    2. Pls, pls, always feel free to comment....you are not 'interrupting'. I appreciate your comments a lot. Thanks

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  3. lol - i echo what simplymee said in that sometimes i dont comment here cos i dont want to interrupt.. i can actually feel the i dont know the word.. in some of your blogs, i can feel the intimacy between you and God. but keep keeping on and don't doubt dont let your faith shake. He isn't sleeping, he hears you.

    As for not wanting to say what other people said.. lol i just dont read other peoples comments and comment! lol sometimes i do ad comment anyway

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    1. Thanks for the encouraging words. my faith is all I have, I have come too far with God to give up. *Hugs*

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  4. Hi Sykik, I am new to blogging and your blog was one of the blogs that made me start off. I understand what you mean about blog commenting as I normally am the type that used to just read and pass by, but I am hoping to change that : ) Do visit my blog.

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    1. Hi, thanks for reaching out.I definitely will be stopping by your blog.

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  5. True...comments make a lot of difference to a blog. SOme blogs have thrived more due to comments received.

    My commenting on your blog now was because of ur comment on my blog. Thanks for visiting.

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    1. Thank you so much for stopping by. I definitely will be doing a better job at commenting during my blog rounds now.

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  6. The importance of a blog is always seen from the comments it recieves, please always do comment, blogging requires that to always remain enjoyable. I know commenting may not always be easy, I find it difficult at times too, but still, do comment. Keep blogging, fellow blogger. Be assured, I will always come around to comment on this space.

    Visit mine too here; www.josephomotayo.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you dear.....am definitely paying your blog a visit

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    2. I read your comment on my blog, thank you. I am deeply appreciative you commented.

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  7. This line made me smile... "oftentimes am writing to God" Bubba me too oh! When i was in Childrens church yeahm in 19kokoro something (**Tongue out, i am not that young nah.. **winks), they taught us that GOD is Omnipresent, and when i started writing, i believed in my heart that he reads blogs too :) xx

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  8. Lol, abeg, abeg.....you no young bah, my twenties feel like decades away

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