Is there a dress for every occasion? What is a church appropriate dress? What is a club appropriate dress? What is an office appropriate dressing?
I am asking these questions because I have noticed for a while now that the female dressing to church these days is “ku diye kato” (remain small make it reach). Most times I sit as close to the altar as possible because I don’t like distractions. However, someway somehow, this year 2013, I have had to sit towards the back and wetin my eyes have seen, my mouth must talk.
Infact, as a woman I have been sexually assaulted from neck plunging dresses to bum-bum showing outfits by fellow women……..kilode….. if we want to hide under the guise of “it is the heart that God looks at” the bible also says in I Corinthians 8:13 “Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause him to fall”
Let us help our guys to worship God in the church without their roving eyes because, even Sykik was tempted, my eyes kept following hot fresh thighs, the rise and fall of bum-bums, well packaged almost bursting booby…kai…front, I no fit look, side nko……mba………it was from one revealing short dress to another, even when Pastor say turn back and tell your neighbour “it is well with him/her”…I was finally lost because I didn’t know where to look.
I understand that there are men who irrespective of what women wear can’t control their libido, so I am not preaching at or justifying anyone. I am only asking that we give unto Caesar what is Caesars…let us be appropriately dressed at all times and for every occasion.
Maybe oyinbo people have seen booby and bum-bum tire sotay they are not moved by such sights anymore but in this part of the world at least for Sykik’s sake ….…make we take am small-small especially in church.
How can we lift up holy hands in worship when the lifting reveals more than necessary…………
I remember Afronuts did a post on something like this also
NB: On a final note, I have some of these clothes oh…so I am no saint, but, my liver will never gree me wear them to church. I think I am rambling now…make I stop
I also noticed little girls wear clothes they have outgrown which reveals a lot of flesh…..abeg paedophiles dey town oh….at last if we wear our own, we owe the kids to keep them protected from vampires.