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August 29, 2014

HOWDY



I have to apologise for staying away, there’s been so much happening. I will fill you in soon. How una dey? What’s popping?  The fear of ebola is the beginning of wisdom shey?........short of using sanitizer to clean food before we eat now.

I hope God doesn’t keep a church attendance register because I have marked absent more than present so far this year in church.  My church attendance needs a revamp......maybe I need to change parish or look for another church...any ideas? I presently attend Redeemed Christian Church of God.

The year 2014 is winding down small small, I need to go look at my 2014 to-do-list....there’s still so much to achieve....above all, my career change is dragging so long. I need liver to drop my resignation so I can move on.......God help me

I am contemplating texturising my natural hair , I have some hair styles I want to try out and I don’t want to wear a wig or install a weave......I am so confused on this ...some days I am a proud #teamnatural and some days , this natural hair can be a pain in the a*s....

Abeg, let me ask oh, which do you prefer a male help or female help. I had to stay home for some days recuperating and I noticed that my neighbour’s female help had male company daily.... Infact, I won’t be surprised if she’s doing “short time” during the day sef......As a good neighbour, am I supposed to tell her or keep quiet. But the girl greets me very well oh...

I remember the first time I heard my 20 year old brother was sexually active..kai, it was as though someone poured me ice water...sexually kini, Mama Sykik was convinced he was raped, seduced or anything but accepting the truth. Mama Sykik was in denial, she couldn’t fathom that her baby was doing the ‘do’, if you see as she warn the girl abi na woman sef (the lady is older than my brother and looks streetwise). I told her to open her eyes and better talk sex education with the boy if she and Papa Sykik never did ..better late than never.........because before they know it they will be grandparents or treating one disease or the other. I told her she better go learn how they talk sex education these days and not the “don’t let any man touch you story” she gave me back in the days.....children of these days don open eye.

Let me end with this song
He loves me I cannot say why
He loves me I cannot say why
On Calvary tree, He suffered for me
He loves me I cannot say why

-Author unknown.

I don’t think a post can be more random as this.

16 comments:

  1. Ha! See gist! LOL @ short time! That help no try at all! My fear is hope she won't let her bf touch any of the children in her care o. Infact, Sykik, take style hint her madam o jare. On her off day, make she go do her short-time somewhere else abegy!

    I prefer female help to male.

    Ahahahaha, @ mama sykik reaction. Yes o, sex education is it. An older woman? She no try at all!

    This hair thing sef! Braids is the solution to me.

    Yes o, year 2014 would soon be over! We thank GOD for HIS mercies. Take care sistah.

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    1. I should tell my neighbour about her maid......hmmmm..ok, I will use style oh.

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  2. Sykik!! We have missed thee :-)
    As always, no matter how 'random' your post is, it's always a delight to read..
    I think I agree with New Dawn, please hint your neighbour oh so that something bad doesn't happen etc etc..

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    1. I will summon courage and wisdom to tell her

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  3. hahahahahahah Mzz Sykik is Back!!! How come I am just seeing this post?? **Whispers I haf being stalking your Blog on a weekly Basis eh!

    Ehmm Well being sexually active at 20 is normal nah?? or what do you prescribe?? 30? Haba... This is 2014 nah. :P Nice to have you back Sykik, we missed you wella.... Ehmmm I know its faaaarrr Away from my Jurisdiction yeah, but from my reading of your Posts, you have a really ghen ghen Job nah, why do you want to resign?? I am confused.com eh :(

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    1. Lol @ ghen ghen job.....I guess I am at the age where money stops counting and fulfilling purpose takes the front burner.

      Sexually active at 20 years for my old school parents is heart breaking oh....am sure somewhere in their church minds they want there children marrying as virgins...Hahahaha

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    2. @ ""am sure somewhere in their church minds they want there children marrying as virgins..."" hehehehe Lmao! Mehn this is 2014 oh Mzz Sykik, I doubt if half of one third of One Quarter of the earths population above 20 are still virgins Except me sha :). **Winks. Anyhow sha, parents are getting updated nowadays oooo..

      Hmmnn I wonder if i will ever get to that point of realization, when Money becomes but an option. Hehhehe Ehmm amma gonna send my CV to fill your role eh.. **Winks.

      P.S; Just for the record, i find inspiration in you madam. :)

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  4. My darling! My love! My sweetie! I was just giving you sharouts on my blog o.

    As for your hair, please check out the max hydration method. I have been hearing a lot about it and i want to try it out too

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    1. Dearie, I will google the max hydration method asap. hopefully, it will work like magic.

      how you dey?

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  5. If I were you, I would tell my neighbor because if something bad happens and she finds out that you knew, you would look like a bad neighbor and you might wish you had said something earlier. Just be wise about it. #MyOpinion Uniquely different with Fredilia

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    1. welcome to my "yard"....bear hugs

      the general consensus is to tell my neighbour, so I will do that. thanks

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  6. blessings....
    Sometimes its necessary to take brief hiatuses.
    Ah parents have to keep it 100%, gotta talk to your children, because they reality is even if there is an open communication policy in your home, they may not come and let you know that they are considering, or having sex. Arm them with the truth, the birds and the bees and the triple Ds, the know how on protection and the awareness of self-preservation. Its all you can do as parents, keep them informed so they can make informed decisions.

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    1. true talk, it's better to keep them informed

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  7. I hope you have found a church to attend now. I realise that once you miss one sunday, it becomes easier to miss another, then another, and another...

    It is a trick. Don't fall for it.

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