October 29, 2013

MUCH ADO ABOUT EVERYTHING



I sometimes wonder what category this blog will be classified as...from my random gist, ramblings, aproko, and my faith-laced posts...I wonder what keep you all coming to my “yard”.......

I write and post without any major edits because I am too spontaneous, however, when I read some of my posts, I cringe ......I ask myself wetin concern una with my tears, my “syko” moments, my internal battles, my TTC experience or my opinion about issues............... everyone has a blog and has made it useful and not for mundane posts, yet, Sykik has turned her blog to “ book of lamentations and whining”, “random gist”, “office gossip” and at best “bible classes”.

Blogville is a virtual community and I have felt every hug, kiss and prayers that has been sent my way. I feel so loved, knowing that people who don’t know me care so much........I appreciate and LOVE you all.

......to other matters....the rate at which people are resigning in this my office ehn..... it is making resignation to be “hungrying” me too.....I am so looking forward to the day I will put pen to paper and write my resignation ...wow....it will be such a joyful experience that I am sure HR department will think I am tipsy or my Hubby just got elected president of America......

It’s not like I don’t love my job, I have always wanted to be an investment banker and right after NYSC, that’s what I have been doing for over a decade........somewhere along the line, for the past 6 years, I have been at one spot...it’s not just the lack of promotion...the various CBN policies have changed the bank’s focus in more ways than one such that my career has been on a halt...........it’s like someone just pressed the pause button since like forever.....I have been thinking it’s going to get better but ...mba.....there’s no fulfilment...it’s time to move on...step into the world and lay foundations for the actualisation of my God given dream..........if I can dream it then I can do it.......however, there’s a teeny weenie part of me that’s scared of stepping out of my comfort zone......will I be able to stay courageous and fight the foxes and lions à la dream killers and dreamstealers...how will I survive without my monthly pay?, did I hear God correctly? e.t.c

My dream resignation would be Sykik going off on maternity leave and dropping my resignation letter at the end of the maternity period.......oh my God....I can do a zillion back flips to have this dream come true....imagine being paid for three months to take care of my twins and then writing to HR Dept that I ain’t resuming anymore..............I deserve this dream..............to start a new chapter, a new lease to turn my dreams into reality.

My resignation letter will probably read thus “It is with so much unqualified joy that I tender my much desired resignation”......hehehe....and my song shall be 

Oh what a wonderful, wonderful day, a day I will never forget
after working for over ten years, this day my resignation I write
my dreams fulfilled and so much joy fills my soul

See, I have started again...wetin concern una with my dream resignation......... hahahaha.....but one day, very soon just like Mstizzle, I will take the plunge 



PS: shout out to Simplymee, she’s been gone from blogville for some months and it feels like it’s been ages.........I trust you are doing well ma’am.
 

16 comments:

  1. Abeg leave classification jare, if we no find category we go create the 'everything goes' category, abi.

    Your sincerity, juicy gists and 'kind heart' will keep making Abi knock on your cyberdoor. You are different and that makes the difference, no flattery.

    You know we all dream of that day that would mark our first step to 'liberation.' but Sykik, that decision is not for the faintheated o...and I love your dream resignation too...so much that I'm begging to apply to join my faith with yours...lol

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    1. my darling, thank you....that "liberation" is surely close by

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  2. Trust me, you will survive without a monthly income. It is better to live your dreams now than to live a life of regret in future. Life is too short for boring routine

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    1. true, life is too short for boring routine........ am definitely taking the plunge and casting my fears out.

      thanks

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  3. Lola is right, Sykik. Dare to live your dreams sis. You can do it.

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    1. I can do it, yes I can...that's my song till I do it.

      thank you ma'am

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  4. there's nothing as fulfilling like living your dreams... I'm loving your positive attitude already. my sister, you will do just fine when the time comes ok? and God will not turn His back on you, so go ahead and make it happen!

    that maternity leave is a dream we all are praying and wishing to happen sooner for you... so it will surely come to pass most definitely! best wishes!!!

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  5. hehehehe everyone dreams of that day... mine is count down to winning lottery. iw ont fully resign just change hours to one day a week :p.

    if you feel you are been put on pause.. then seek God (like you do) if he says move.. ask him how far! LOL to Jand ;) to join us.. or whereever else. I pray he leads you accrodingly. Everything else will fall in place if it is his will. Was listening to a song on my way to work. Lyrics basically says that if God ordains it, he will maintain it.

    Post maternity change in career will be sweet too!

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    1. True oh, winning the lottery will also be awesome

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  6. Amen!!!!!! And we like aproko gist jor. That's what makes the world go round. Whoever said money erm was erm, i don't know sha but Gist is what makes the world go round ...that's the story i'm sticking with plus, it's maintaining world peace :D Yes, i believe that too

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    1. High five o jare, my dear.....gist makes the world go round....the world will be so boring if no one is "aprokoing"

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  7. Mehnnnn even me I can't wait to sing with you! "oh what a wonderful, wonderful day..." *practising!*

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  8. Meen I am taking the leap of faith
    I have been dreaming of this day for long
    Now I can go for the special programs my friends invite me for
    I can hang out with people i am at least 70% sure they love me
    I can be comfortable and be myself, despite all the dreams my
    family and I are having; I will not be changing my mind
    That said, your post is uniquely you and your babies are coming
    Have faith in God
    Its not yours anyway, its His. It is impossible to have faith without
    hearing God's word so hear the word of God that speaks to your heart
    then have faith in God.

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    1. You mean you also have been meaning to step out....God will direct you...

      I can't seem to drop comments on your blog...I get " there was a problem saving your comment. Please try again"

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  9. :) :) :)....
    I join my faith with yours..xxx

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  10. So I read the 6th Paragraph yeah.. and i smiled from the most sincere part of my heart.. :) #BecauseWeMissSykik

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